Talking with the locals is probably the best way to learn about authentic customs and cultures. But sometimes breaking the ice can feel a bit awkward. So, try a tip or two from Explorica. You never know, you might make a friend in the process.
1. Flex your dimples
Even if you don’t speak the language of your host country, you do speak the language of the world. (That’s a friendly face and a broad smile to you and me.) In many parts of the world good eye contact helps build bridges, too. Particularly in European countries such as Spain, France and Germany because it says that you want to strike up conversation. But in others, such as Japan and Peru, keep eye contact to a minimum to show respect for the locals.
2. With compliments (really)
Picking up a few choice words in the local language (like “please” and “thank you,” “hello and “goodbye,” and “where’s the bathroom”) is a must. But learning how to say, “That’s delicious” at a café or “what a beautiful basket” at the market or even “how cute” about a passerby‘s dog is a bonus because it beefs up dialog. Take note, however, in some parts of the world such as in Africa or in the Middle East, a compliment obliges a person to give you the item that you like. So you‘ll want to compliment carefully, if not sparingly!
3. Cultural exchange, literally
A great way to ingratiate yourself into a culture is to actively exchange ideas. When you strike up a conversation, be willing (and ready) to share stories or examples of how things differ in America. For example, show American coins or pack a few U.S. brand snacks to share that might not be common where you’re going. And, carry a few photos from back home with you, too. That way you and the locals will get more out of an interaction because there’ll be something to learn—and teach.